Well guys,
I sincerely could not follow the arguments provided by Xeno. Where is Scheng in the mentioned thread??

( she is a real nice lady)

But going by Erin's post i think i got some idea.
Well Well, Erin is right. Use PM's, They are meant for personal communication and please sought out any differences of opinions if you guys have any.
I agree with Brazilianwoman, regarding the civility of this forum. There are many reasons for this. First and foremost is that it is knowledge based community where each and every person parts with his knowledge for helping out others. Moreover this forum is well represented, so people don't take liberties against each other instead they show respect.

Also Communication between persons is light hearted. I have seen other forums which are entertainment based or are full of persons of same country or religion. There people start flame wars and then mods have to step in to stop whole mess. Luckily this is not the case with this forum.
Hey, Erin you are doing good job... and i hope the future mods( including Dingus) also do the same. Best of Luck.
Chillout.