There are many kinds of people in our life. Are you sure you all like them? The answer is no. there are more people you dislike for sure. Try to think a few minutes. We face with them everyday. They are your classmates, colleages. How come you can operate your job. If your teachers, boss put you and them into a group. Hence, itís necessary to learn the way to get along with them. Here are some tips to help you overcome it.
One of the most important thing is that you need to make friend with them for a start. Donít concern much about what you know about them before. You should have some small talks with them first and try showing that you really want to have a friend than a person you dislike. In fact, no one is perfect and no one is entirely bad. So you should not hope much about some things at them, everything need time. You can find some good points that is similar to you. You should consider it a right reason to have talk with them in another times. At this time, you will have a positive thought about them.
Changing the way you think about them is an another thing to be considered here. Usually, we hate someone that there is no any reason at all. It is simple for we donít like the way they think, act, the clothes thay dress,Öfor itís entirely different from you. So we donít like them while their action is no effect on us. It seems that we always have negative thoughts about them. It is unfair for them, right. Therefore, you should not think wrong about any person before you know clearly about them by myself.
Finally, making friend with someone you canít stand can be considered chanllenge yourself. The big different between you and them may be interesting. There are many new things that you need have time to dicover for sure at them.that is the way life teach us. It helps us learn to control our emotions and gives us a right sight about life before considering someone. It seems to be a big test for every person. Why you donít think it is a big opportunity to test your personality.
As we can see, having a friend that have opposite characters is not easy but it is not hard. We can completely make them become our friends in some days. We have a large friendship for sure.
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