OSU vs. NYU waitlist

[qqq]

What a mess. Before today, I was completely set on accepting NYU if I get off the waitlist... after all, it was a no-brainer, right? But today, I received emails from four professors at OSU saying what a great fit I am there (did anybody else get emails?) because I am interested in micro/experimental/behavioral/theory, and how closely students work with professors and how well they do. All this attention makes me feel like I could be really successful in working with professors there, and getting great guidance from an advisor.

On the NYU side, I made the (deadly) mistake of not going to their open house when I was invited due to financial circumstances and general uncertainty, but I realize now I should have done anything possible, short of selling my body, to get myself to New York. For future generations: I know it's all over this forum that you *should* go to the open house (if on waitlist) because it looks good but you should realize JUST how true this is: when I asked about the waitlist again, it was pointed out to me that it was very unfortunate that I did not attend. I think this may have seriously hurt my chances. Nevertheless, there is still a possibility for me, given that I fully commit myself to accept if given an offer.

Again, before today, I was completely prepared to do so. Now... not so sure? Maybe I am being too sensitive but I'm worried that even if I do get an offer, it will be harder to get back in good graces with NYU, which may affect my future at the school, while I am receiving a lot more enthusiasm from OSU. This has also been a pretty anxiety-filled week so I am probably over-thinking it. Logically, everyone's adults and it should be my performance my first year that determines how the professors see me, but I can't help but wonder...

Any thoughts?

[unfallible]

I have kind of the same research interests and four faculty contact me last week saying basically the same thing. With that said, I don't think NYU faculty are going to give you a hard time for not going to the flyout if they give you an offer, so don't let that affect your choice.

[Andronicus]

Don't worry about it. If NYU gives you an offer, go to NYU. OSU is a good fit for your interests (they're my interests too) but NYU clearly dominates.

[kipfilet]

E-mail Marge or whoever is in charge of admissions asking if there are any news on the waitlist. This expresses the interest they are expecting from your part, I believe. I did not attend NYU's open house last year (was waitlisted) and ended up getting an offer on April 14 or something.

[qqq]

Thanks for everyone's help. I just need to remember to breathe and relax. It'll be over soon.