Dear all,
I'm preparing for my application this year, and I have 2 questions that I hope to have your advice/sharing experience.
1. For recommendation letters:
I personally find it hard to get academic recommendation letters, partly because I have been out of school for too long (i think!). It seems that my previous professors don't remember me, and don't want to bother to write recommendations for me. I have contacted two of them recently to ask if they can write recommendations for me, but two of them just don't reply! I did mention that I intend to apply widely to 10-15 schools, but I'm not sure whether that's the reason that turned them off (because they are U.S PhDs, I assume that they understand the process). And it's tough to get the professor in the field that we intend to apply for (in my case, Marketing) to write recommendation letters for various reasons (some switched schools, others don't want to help)... so I have no choice but to resort to the ones that know me and are willing to write for me.
I personally don't want to 'disturb' people, so I do feel shy and resistant to ask previous professors to. But even with a very polite, thoughtful letter, the reply is still silence.
I would like to ask for your advice/experience on this issue. What should we do? Is there any smart way to handle this? If we apply to 15-20 schools, isn't that a huge burden for the ones who write recommendation letters for us? Should we give them something back (e.g. a gift)?...
2. Research proposal & personal statement:
I'd like to have someone (esp. current PhD candidates or PhD graduates) to review these documents and give me some inputs, or else i don't know if I misunderstood or wrote something silly instead. How can I do this? If there's anyone who can help me, I'd be indebted!
Thank you very much!
Wish you all the best of luck!